Attacks your time
Ambush
They spring a big ask where saying no is awkward.
The first tell
You feel put on the spot. That feeling arrives before you can name the move.
What it sounds like
At a family dinner, a cousin announces: We all agreed you'd host the reunion, right?
Say back
I won't decide this here. I'll answer tomorrow.
If they push
Everyone's waiting. Just say yes.
Everyone can wait until tomorrow.
How this family is disarmed
Slow down. A good offer survives a day.
Paid
See it in dating and at work
Context packs show this tactic in the settings where it does the most damage, and let you drill it against a timer.