Attacks your logic
Strawman
They swap your point for a weaker one and attack that.
The first tell
You feel misquoted. That feeling arrives before you can name the move.
What it sounds like
You say the team should test before launch. They reply: So you want to delay everything forever?
Say back
That's not what I said. I said we should test before launch.
If they push
Same thing. You're against shipping.
Testing first and never shipping are different. Which part of testing do you object to?
How this family is disarmed
Restate the real claim, add the missing options, or ask for the missing step.
Paid
See it in dating and at work
Context packs show this tactic in the settings where it does the most damage, and let you drill it against a timer.